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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

10.06.2025 02:19

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

The Webb telescope found something exceedingly rare around a dying star - Mashable

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

What habits do happy couples have?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

What kind of person does a narcissist hate?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

What is your favorite position? Why?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

Please share Did you stop?

What is better, 4 more years of Trump with the media trying to hurt him, or 8 years of DeSantis with the media licking booty, or 4 to 8 years of RFK with the media hating on him all the time? (Biden is not an option, he can't win)

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

*** Random Questions ***

Tucker Barnhart Elects Free Agency - MLB Trade Rumors

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

In what ways is modern day Russia similar to the USSR? How does it differ from the USSR in terms of culture and politics?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

Who is the beast of Revelation 13?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

What is a narcissist grandmother like, with her grandchild?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

Any that are a turn off?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Can you explain the difference between fissionable and fissile materials and their role in nuclear power reactors?

If yes, what?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

Would you read them together?

How rough can the ferry passage from Hull to Rotterdam be in the autumn ( at the end of October )?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

If you win, what will you make them do?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

Any that are a turn off?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

52~ What are your hobbies?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

39~ What are your love languages?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

The Ice Breaker Questions

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

29- How superstitious are you?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

*** Questions About Me ***

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Family Relation Age Play

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Nothing too Serious

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?